Wedding of Dawn and Simon Cole-Savidge
Saturday
22nd November 2014
John 2:1-11 On the third day there was a wedding in Cana
of Galilee, and the mother of Jesus was there.
2 Jesus and his disciples had also been invited to the
wedding. 3 When the wine gave
out, the mother of Jesus said to him, "They have no wine." 4 And Jesus said to her,
"Woman, what concern is that to you and to me? My hour has not yet
come." 5 His mother said
to the servants, "Do whatever he tells you." 6 Now standing there were six
stone water jars for the Jewish rites of purification, each holding twenty or
thirty gallons. 7 Jesus said
to them, "Fill the jars with water." And they filled them up to the
brim. 8 He said to them,
"Now draw some out, and take it to the chief steward." So they took
it. 9 When the steward tasted
the water that had become wine, and did not know where it came from (though the
servants who had drawn the water knew), the steward called the bridegroom 10 and said to him, "Everyone
serves the good wine first, and then the inferior wine after the guests have
become drunk. But you have kept the good wine until now." 11 Jesus did this, the first of
his signs, in Cana of Galilee, and revealed his glory; and his disciples
believed in him.
There
are three subjects that they say you should never preach about:
money, politics and sex.
Well,
over the years that I’ve been preaching,
I’ve spoken plenty of times about
money
and I’ve waded in often enough on
politics
but
I’ve not often had a chance to preach about sex.
Which
is odd, when I stop to think about it,
because if you ask the typical
person outside of the church,
what they think the preoccupations
are of those of us inside it,
the
chances are that they will say
that Christians are preoccupied with
sex,
and who is allowed to do what, and
with whom.
And
yet the Bible, and Jesus in particular,
talks a lot more about money and
politics
than about issues of sexual ethics
and morality.
And
so I will continue to argue that our preaching should primarily address
issues of economics, and justice,
and power;
because these are crucial issues
for what it means to be followers
of Christ
in
this world in which we find ourselves.
However,
today is a wedding, and so it is appropriate
for us to have as our Bible reading
a story in which Jesus turns
up at a wedding,
and turns copious quantities of
religious legalism
into unexpectedly fine
wine.
So
today I’m not going to preach directly about politics,
and I’m not going to preach about
how we use our money.
Rather,
I’m going to preach about…
the nature of the kingdom of God.
(But sex might get a mention too,
along the way).
John’s
gospel, where we find this story of Jesus turning water into wine,
has a special word that it uses to
describe the miracles of Jesus:
It calls them ‘signs’.
These ‘signs’ of John’s gospel
are
there, as signs often are,
to
point to something beyond themselves.
Just as a road sign might point to somewhere it
wants you to go,
or
a sign on a building might point to what is inside,
So the signs of John’s gospel point to the
kingdom of God;
they
point to the new way of being human before God
that
is coming into being through the person of Jesus.
And
the very first of these ‘signs’,
is set at a wedding party:
a feast of celebration: of love,
commitment, and faithfulness.
And
at this party, Jesus transforms 180 gallons of water
into the equivalent of 1,091 bottles
of wine
which is, when you think about it,
quite a lot of wine for one party.
I
remain quietly optimistic that there will be some wine on the table
at the reception later,
but
I think even Dawn and Simon’s collection of friends
may struggle to get through over a
thousand bottles in one sitting.
But
back to John’s gospel, and of course, this is a sign:
the importance here is not the water, or the wine,
the importance is what they point
to…
The
water, we are told, was there for the Jewish ritual washing,
it was the water of careful religious
observance,
it was the water of the law of the
land.
The
Jews of the first century had very strict rules about rituals;
their whole society was built on
adhesion
to a comprehensive
religious legal code
which regulated everything from when
and how to wash your hands
to what you could eat and wear, and
even who you could marry.
The
six water jars at the wedding, were just the tip
of a whole Levitical and Deutoronomic
legal iceberg
that existed to ensure that those
who kept its requirements
could be confident that
their behaviour
wouldn’t jeopardise
their covenant relationship with their God.
So,
from a Jewish perspective,
the water was very necessary.
Without
it, the people at the party wouldn’t be able to wash in the right way
and would become ritually unclean;
which would rather spoil
the party;
certainly for those who were very
concerned
about their careful
religious observance
And
yet Jesus turned it into wine!
After
Jesus had finished with them,
the stone jars no longer held water
for washing and
purifying,
but wine for rejoicing, wine for
celebrating
wine for the enhancing
of life.
The
party had been in danger of failing,
because the wine had run out,
and all that was left was water.
And
in the face of this, Jesus transformed water into wine,
turning a concern for strict religious
law-keeping
into a free gift of fine wine for
everyone.
This
sign of water-turned-to-wine
points us to the idea that when
Jesus turns up at a party,
the
time for strict religious legal observance has passed,
and the time for living life in all
its fullness has arrived.
And
this, says John’s gospel,
is a ‘sign’ of the in-breaking
kingdom of God
We
get the same theme elsewhere in the gospels, of course,
where the kingdom of God is spoken
of as a party, or a banquet,
to which all are invited,[1]
not just the righteous, the
self-righteous, and the sanctimonious,
but the ordinary,
everyday people
whose lives
are complex and confused.
The kingdom of God, as Jesus
proclaimed it,
embraces those whom
others might deem
unworthy or unsuitable.
So
let me put this as clearly as I can:
If the
church is to be an outpost of the kingdom of God,
then it needs to be less concerned
with water,
and more enthusiastic about wine.
It
needs to be less concerned about the finer points of legal observance,
and more enthusiastic about the new
thing that Jesus is doing
as he brings life and joy to those
meet him at the party.
And
so, as promised, we come to the subject of sex.
This is, after all, a wedding
celebration,
and none of us, surely,
are under any illusions
about what that means.
Weddings
are a celebration of the joining together
of two people in love and covenant
commitment,
not
only for their own sake,
but for the sake of the whole of
society.
But,
and here’s an interesting thing,
Dawn and Simon actually got married
some months ago.
I
remember the day well,
because Dawn turned up for a staff
meeting that morning,
and had to leave early to go and get
married.
Simon
and Dawn went to a registry office,
made their legal promises in front
of some witnesses,
signed
some paperwork,
and were declared
husband and wife by the registrar..
In
the eyes of the law, they have been married for some time.
But nonetheless, here they are today,
with all of us,
for something even more
wonderful to happen.
Today
is where the water of their legal marriage,
is transformed into the fine wine of
a covenant entered into before God.
Today,
the promises made at a legal ceremony
in a Registry Office in Camden,
become
promises made in the sight of God
and in the congregation of his
gathered people.
Water
is turned into wine in our midst,
and their marriage becomes itself a
sign,
pointing us all to the
life-transforming potential
of the coming kingdom of God.
It
is one of the great tragedies of Christian history
that those inside the church
have
spent so much time and effort
obsessing over the legalities of
sexual ethics.
From
debates over the rights and wrongs of contraception,
to whether it is right for divorcees
to remarry in church,
to the current discussions around
sexuality and marriage.
When
we make such legalisms the touchstone of our faith,
and when we allow our concerns for
purity to dominate,
we
invest ours energies into maintaining our jars of water
whilst the wine of the kingdom runs
dry in our midst.
And
sometimes it takes a miracle to open our eyes
to the work of love that God is
doing in his world.
Sometimes
it takes a wedding
to turn our obsession with purity
into something altogether more
wonderful.
And
so here we are today,
and a miracle is happening in our
midst.
Two
people are joining themselves to one another,
in the presence of God
and in the company of his people.
And
what God joins together,
no-one should separate,
because
the new is come, and the old is passed.
The
kingdom of love is breaking into our world,
and the blessing of God is ever made
real in new ways.
Water
becomes wine,
and the party of celebration begins.
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